I stole this idea from the blog of Kimberly Kinrade. I enjoyed hers so much I thought yeah, we should all do that! The question that I get asked most as a writer is…”How do you have time?”. If you read Kim’s blog you will see she doe A LOT. I don’t have nearly the projects she has going, but I do work full-time!
The whole point behind this is that if you WANT to do something you can find time to do it. I think that 99% of moms are super moms. You may not be writing books, but how many things did you volunteer to do at the school this year? How many friend’s weddings/birthdays/christenings/retirement parties, did you help plan?
So here it is, a day in my life! I’d love to read yours:
6:00 AM – alarm goes off – Keith is long gone by now so I roll out of bed and stumbled towards the kids room where I flip on the light and rip the covers off of them. Baby girl will inevitable swear she didn’t sleep and a twenty-minute argument ensues. If I give up and leave the room they will get dressed, so I do. Back to my bathroom to dress, then feed the animals, pick up all the trash the kids left all over the house and scoot them out the door.
7:00 AM – Kids have been dropped off and I start my hour commute to work. This is usually when I catch up with my best friend or call my Dad. Sometimes I have literal conversations with said BFF and others we are talking about characters in my latest work in progress.
8:00 – AM Sign in at JOB – I go through all my outstanding work, check renewal dates, scream, cuss and cry. This goes on until Noon when I finally get from behind my desk. (Now we all know that in here somewhere you get a call from the bill collector, the kid at school that forgot their project, and your husband who wants you to keep a mental list of things to pick up at the store – go Blackberry!)
Noon: Grab a bite to eat and walk around with a notebook jotting down ideas for blogs, my WIP, or books that I’m helping my friends critique. Sometimes I get to sit down and write and at this point I do it long-hand, in a notebook, as people walk by and say, “What ya doin?”
1-4:30 – More Insurance work. Every now and then I get to slip in a blog or read a chapter for a friend and do a quick critique. In the mean time, I’m jumping on and off Facebook because you have to keep up with the readers, bloggers, reviewers, and fans. I try to share something, say hello, and make sure my reviews/blogs/etc, posted. Facebook will suck you in and so will Twitter!
5:00 PM Home – Hour and half commute home if there is no wreck on the Interstate! Thank you Lord, Keith cooks! Homework check and a quick episode of Wizards of Waverly Place, unless of course Keith gets the remote then we are watching Two and Half Men reruns.
6:00 PM – The kids have generally lost interest in me by now and are on computers and cell phones. I get to write for about an hour!
7:00 PM – Facebook sucks me in for 30 minutes until I peel myself away and go make sure everyone is bathed and hang out with Keith for a bit.
8:00 PM Write blogs for the following week, send review request off to bloggers, try to check my publisher’s websites and do some critiquing.
9:00 PM Must hang out with Keith. Kids are usually in bed (ours or theirs). We watch some show about hillbillies with no teeth that make moonshine in the mountains. Keith is snoring by 9:45.
10:00 PM – Until – I get to write again! I usually write between 10 PM and whenever. I try to get in bed by midnight, but if I walk in the kitchen and the dishes need to be done or there is a pile of laundry that needs to be folded it may be later. This is the worse time to get sucked into Facebook so I try to stay away!
Finally! Bath and sleep only to hear the alarm go off again before I’m really sleeping. As Kim said in her blog, this doesn’t account for sick kids, laundry day, family night, time with friends, and the unexpected things that happen every week.
The truth is, if I’m not doing something 24/7, I’ll go insane…so I was thinking about going back to school….Hmmm. 🙂
Monique O’Connor James
Author of The Keepers, Jamais Vu, The Mulligan Man & Deja Vu – published by Astraea Press
Coming Summer 2012 – Becoming Jolie – published by Crushing Hearts and Black Butterfly Publishing